I'll submit to you completely — hand me the rope, blindfold me, and take your time making me wait. I want to feel helpless in the best way, unable to touch you, unable to control what happens next....0̴7̴6̴ ̴9̴4̴6̴ ̴1̴6̴3̴5̴
Never pay down a deposit in a bank account until you have met the seller, seen signed a purchase agreement.
No serious private advertisers ask for a down payment before you meet.
Receiving an email with an in-scanned ID does not mean that you have identified the sender. You do this on the spot, when you sign a purchase agreement.