Never pay down a deposit in a bank account until you have met the seller, seen signed a purchase agreement.
No serious private advertisers ask for a down payment before you meet.
Receiving an email with an in-scanned ID does not mean that you have identified the sender. You do this on the spot, when you sign a purchase agreement.
I keep my voice low and tell you how full it feels. The words come out between breaths while you’re moving inside me. Describing the stretch and the pressure out loud makes me more aware of it and keeps me locked in the moment.